Truth said, I am not a very consistent kind of person, but let's just try.
Here's me & my fiance (or my HTB)
25 January 2009: We met at "online" through an "online chat" called the "Alamak" a few years back (4 years actually) & we instantly clicked.
(Well I know I did)
We got together even before meeting each other. We connected through phone calls and webcams (those were the days)
Oh and I can say I was pretty impressed when he sound "steady" me with a poem. (Lol, pretty cheesy but sweet).
28 January 2009: I replied a few days after that with another poem & ta-da , we're gf & bf.
A week after that (4 Feb 2009) we decided to meet up for the very first time. (I didn't know I was actually that brave) It's a blind date, I can say. We met at the Jurong East MRT station platform and instantly, I know how he looks like (from the webcam chat almost everynight)
We went for lunch at Jurong Point Banquet and truth said, I was pretty shy.
After that he decided to bring me to Japanese Garden (yes I find that romantic till now) & we chat and I was much more amazed by the surroundings actually.
Years, months, days, hours, minutes past
we got engaged. I remembered having to decide suddenly near midnight of one day in December and said,
"Let's get engaged in June"
6 months to prepare and it was madness. It was hard I must say to break the news to our parents especially as they were more to the "mane ade cukup time nk prepare anything" that-kind.
Initially, we wanted to get engaged on the 30th June 2012, but, his parents decided to push up the engagement to 10 June 2012.
Everything went well, Alhamdulillah.
From what I can remember, here are the list of people that I used for my engagement:
# gubahan: Sri Manisah Gubahan
# mak andam: my own cuz, Shima
# baju: bought from Joo Chiat
# catering: Rina , which was also the aunty vendor in my school canteen
# photography: Purple Plum Tree
#engagement cake: Wak Nah(hers) & Remy Cuppies (him)
(I must say parents were nagging at me for wasting so much money on the photography, but then again once the picture was developed, they pretty much kept their mouth shut :P)
I must say, thats all.
Initially planned to have at least 5 dulangs, or maximum of 10.
& at the end, it was nearly 14 for his sides, and about 21 for my side.
Alhamdulillah da rezki.
So, days past again, and 6 months later of our engagement, (which was last december), we decided something out of the blue again,
"Let's get married in June. Make it June 8"
Soooooo, here I am 4 more months to my wedding & madness preparations I must say.
More work, More things. & MORE MONEY
But since I'm left with another 4 more months, I'm glad and thankful that most things are settle for me.
My catering and all are all in the midst of half payment.
I'll blog about my wedding preparations in the next entry :D
xoxo, Going-to-be , Mrs Ridzman